Where Your next chapter Begins With Sisterhood, Luxury, and Joy
You’ve spent decades achieving, giving, and holding it all together.
Now it’s time for you.
To be celebrated.
To be supported.
To be surrounded by women who see you, get you, and are walking this path beside you.
Bougie BFFs is more than a membership.
It’s a movement.
A sanctuary for the high-achieving, soul-seeking Black woman over 50 who knows there’s more to life than hustle and sacrifice.
This is your space to elevate your connections, your joy, and your lifestyle—surrounded by a luxury sisterhood of women just like you.
This Is For You If:
- You’re ready to release the friendships that no longer serve you—and step into ones that nourish your spirit.
- You’ve outgrown surface-level convos and want connection rooted in growth, laughter, and trust.
- You’re building a legacy—and want sisterhood that supports that vision.
- You want ease, joy, and curated experiences designed for grown women who love good wine, good laughs, and good intentions.
What You’ve Been Needing:
A curated, drama-free circle of women who actually align with your values and energy.
Real friendship that feels good—not one-sided, draining, or performative.
A community where you don’t have to explain your excellence, your soft era, or your need for peace.
Expert insight, thoughtful events, and real tools for the grown-woman season you’re in.
What You’ll Experience Inside:
💞 Deep & Meaningful Connections
Make real friends again—with women who aren’t competing, copying, or ghosting. We connect you to Bougie BFFs who align with your lifestyle and values.
🎓 Expert-Led Growth Sessions
Each month, join intimate, live virtual sessions with experts in:
- Wealth Building & Retirement
- Dating Over 50 & Relationship Reset
- Health & Menopause
- Legacy Planning (Wills, Trusts, Healthcare)
- Style, Travel, Joy & More
🌍 Luxury Travel & Local Fun
From cozy wine nights to luxe getaways to curated international adventures—Bougie BFFs offers quarterly travel, concierge perks, and VIP access that makes every event feel magical.
🎁 Gifting & Celebration
Because you deserve to be surprised and delighted—every season. From luxe welcome boxes to personalized birthday gifts and surprise mailers, we make you feel seen.
Two Ways to Join the Circle
| Elite Bougie BFFs | Royal Bougie BFFs | |
|---|---|---|
| Investment | $97/month or $997/year | $197/month or $1,997/year |
| Monthly Expert Masterclasses | ✅ | ✅ |
| Monthly BFF Sessions + Hot Seats | ✅ | ✅ |
| Access to The Elevated Vault | ✅ | ✅ |
| Personalized BFF Match (1) | ✅ | ✅ |
| Local Bougie Meetups | ✅ | ✅ (VIP access) |
| Access to Group Travel & Retreats | ✅ | ✅ (Priority Booking + Concierge) |
| Luxury Welcome Gift Box | ✅ | Luxe Edition |
| Birthday Surprise Gift | ✅ | VIP Experience |
| Featured Member Spotlights | ❌ | ✅ |
| Private Navigate Your Life Strategy Sessions (3/year) | ❌ | ✅ |
| Seasonal Self-Care Gift Boxes | ❌ | ✅ |
| Travel Buddy Match | ❌ | ✅ |
| VIP Lounge at Events | ❌ | ✅ |
Real Talk, Gurl...
You’ve held so many people down.
You’ve been the strong one, the wise one, the reliable one. Now it’s your turn to receive.
To be poured into.
To build a life of softness, excellence, and elevated friendship. You don’t have to figure it out alone.
You just need the right circle.
Join Elite Bougie BFFs
$97/month or $997/year
Join Royal Bougie BFFs
$197/month or $1,997/year
Before you go...
Because the most bougie, brilliant, and beautiful thing you can do in this season…
Is surround yourself with women who reflect who you’re becoming.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I join the Gurlfriends' Collective?
Easy! Choose your membership tier and join directly on the site. You may choose between Royal Bougie BFFs and Elite Bougie BFFs.
Where do events take place?
Most masterclasses and virtual sessions are online via Zoom. In-person events include local meetups and destination retreats—offered quarterly with VIP options for Royal members.
Can I upgrade later?
Absolutely. You can start with Elite and upgrade to Royal at any time for even more perks, priority access, and personalized support.
Is this just for women in the U.S.?
Nope! Bougie BFFs welcomes Black women over 50 from anywhere in the world. Our virtual sessions are timezone-friendly, and our community is open to international members.
I'm not 50 yet—can I still join?
If you're in your late 40s and this vision speaks to your soul, you’re welcome to join. We prioritize alignment over age, especially for women preparing for their next chapter.
How does the BFF Match work?
Once you join, we gather a bit about your vibe, lifestyle, and goals—then thoughtfully match you with a fellow Bougie BFF for intentional connection. You’re never left to “figure it out” on your own.
Do I need to be super social or outgoing to join?
Not at all. Whether you’re an extroverted social butterfly or a quiet powerhouse, we’ll meet you where you are. Connection here is about authentic energy—not performance.